Opinion | Loving each other is not enough to get married

REFERRER. Dr. Nancy Álvarez is extremely popular in the Latino community.

I have spent my life teaching about sexuality, the relationship and the family, and I am somewhat disappointed. However, every day I run into some fans who say nice things, like a Venezuelan on a beach in Florida: “Doctor, let me hug you, please. I thank him so much for what he has helped me with my children, my divorce and how to handle it, so that my children will not be affected… ”.

However, I remain disappointed with what has been achieved so far. The little bird that goes around the world, causing divorces, separations, domestic violence and a horrible etcetera to rise, has made it difficult for me.

But, I resemble the “little prince” of Antoine de Saint Exupery: once he asks a question or proposes something, he insists until he achieves it. Our team, led by Jhonnie Griffing, we have proposed to educate in depth online on couples issues. We no longer have to travel to access a good education for life. That is one of the positive things that the damn bird has left us. Now we come to the whole world and, from Japan or Greece, you can access in-depth training on the most important topics in life. Just sign up.

What are the topics in which we must be experts to improve our life and that of the beings we love?

I would answer with another fundamental question:

What determines the future of a human being at birth? His family, his parents and what he lived in the first seven years of life. Also, who did his mom and dad choose to marry and decide to bring into the world. But who teaches us to choose?

We choose partners for very wrong reasons, such as:

  1. Because I am deeply in love
  2. Because it is “a good game.” This means that he has money, he is good looking …
  3. Because you have to get married and have children “before certain ages”
  4. We don’t get along very well, but since we’re in love, that will surely change. My love so great will achieve it …

I could come up with a thousand so-called reasons like these, but I have some very bad news for you: none are going to work. The first has an answer: for love to work, loving is not enough. You must marry someone you love. Marriage is difficult, even in love. Almost all people who get divorced are still in love, but they don’t understand each other.

Neither for money (that’s prostitution), nor because someone is handsome or handsome, nor because I “dream” that I will change it if, for example, they are addicted to rage. And never join someone just to have children. That will negatively affect the couple, and much more the future children.

“Education” forgot to educate for life. And those of us who can do it, we will have to start strong. I count on you.

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